About Butterfly Counselling

The Internet is full of websites that have a page called “About Me.” And sometimes that page should say “About You.”

Because what matters most and the reason people like you get in touch with people like me.  Is to find someone who can meet your needs.

So, before we talk about what it is that I do, let’s talk about what it is you need.

About You

Who Are You?

People turn to me for so many reasons. You’re someone to whom life has become a struggle.

  • You’ve experienced the loss of a friend, child, parent or partner and perhaps you worry you won’t recover.
  • You’ve experienced a situation you feel is traumatic and perhaps you feel overwhelmed and lost.
  • Or you sense a yearning to find more meaning and purpose in your life.

Any loss and/or traumatic experience is painful and can be difficult to navigate especially if you feel alone.  With the right therapy, the following is possible:

  • You can have inner peace.
  • You can find the inner resilience you didn’t suspect you had.
  • You can live again and feel better and feel good.

It may take time, and as difficult as it may be to hear!  It is your choice whether to remain on ‘pause’, and unhappy, perhaps relying on medication to help you to cope, or whether you become the person you can be – but I can help.

What Do I Need From You?

I need you to be willing and ready to begin your journey of new prospectives, new insights and possibilities and be committed to keeping our appointments.

During sessions, you can enjoy further benefits from some energy healing.  Specifically designed to help improve your emotional, mental, physical and spiritual wellbeing even further! You needn’t come to me as a wholehearted believer.   All I ask is an openness to fresh ideas and open to the idea of receiving some support through energy.

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About Me

Now that you know what I can offer you, it’s only fair that I tell you something about me.  The UK has a large number of bereavement counsellors, but I am one of the few counsellors who can also feel and hear spirit. This also gives me a peak into your potential and this helps to navigate the healing work we do.

My objective is not only to put you back on your feet to lessen you’re suffering – but to open your mind to new possibilities.

What makes it possible for me to do those things?

Simple: I’ve been bereaved, too.

I worked for over twenty years in personal development, counselling and therapy but it was the sheer pain and trauma of losing my daughter, Alexx when she was 24 years old.  Alexx being my only child I’ve also experienced the loss of being a mum, being a grandparent being able to enjoy all the other milestones that come with having children.

Yet through the tears, the heartache, the heartbreak and the darkness there has also been a great deal of healing and positivity.  I have also grown in many ways as a result of my experience.  I view life completely differently and I see a richness and appreciation I didn’t see before.  I’ve found inner strength and qualities I didn’t know I had.  I am more carefree and stressfree than ever before.  It’s fair to say that my own trauma, with its shades of darkness and light, has been transformational and shown me how to change my life and create a new life whilst honouring Alexx.

I know how difficult it can be. I understand what you have to go through because I’ve been through it before you.  I had to work very hard to find my way to a new life. And so will you. But you’ll have me in your corner, helping you find the way.

When you experience bereavement, you want to feel better. Of course, you do. But don’t stop there.

Make this experience the catalyst for living your life that honours your loved one and what will, when the work is over, be a different and – hard as this is to believe – a life that makes you smile and makes you proud.

I work online and by telephone. Get in touch. Right now, let’s get you to where you truly deserve to be.

Yes, I’m ready to start today . . .


Qualified EMDR Practitioner

I’m able to help you release and reduce symptoms of trauma quickly.


BA (Hons) in Counselling

My skills in being able to listen and hear what can’t be expressed and help you let go of the blocks hindering you from feeling better.

Accreditation & Registration

Accredited Counsellor with the British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP)

Certificate Number 017469

Accredited EMDR Practitioner with the EMDR Association UK & Ireland (EMDR Assoc UK & Ireland)

Ethics – My work is governed by the high standards and strict codes of professional ethics by the above organizations.

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